Results 1 to 7 of 7

Thread: How To Become An Ideal Friend

  1. #1
    Member Array
    Join Date
    Nov 2006
    Location
    UAE
    Posts
    2,950
    Rep Power
    0

    How To Become An Ideal Friend

    How To Become An Ideal Friend

    Its not easy becoming a friend or making one because a friend is not a state of mind. Its real and its in your face. A friend is someone who makes your life worth its while a little more than yesterday. While everybody has their own definitions of a "friend", the long and short of it is we all need friends to make our lives better. We at TheHolidaySpot value our friendship as much as you do and would like to share our ideas of how to become an ideal friend with you, for if wasn't for you we wouldn't be where we are today.


    HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY...

    In friendship "honesty" is the key word. One should always be honest to his or her friends.
    Don't overlook their faults, even if you have none for you are his friend!
    Praise them honestly and openly.
    Say you're sorry, when you hurt your friend. Don't let them assume it.


    GIVE MORE THAN YOU TAKE...

    Be there when they need you or you may wind up alone.

    Love them unconditionally, that is the only condition. Make them feel special, because aren't we all special?
    Never forget them, who wants to feel forgotten.


    BE SUPPORTIVE...

    Cheer them on, we all need encouragement now and then.
    Encourage their dreams and aspiration, Life seems almost meaningless without them.
    Your words count, use them wisely.
    Use good judgement.
    Wish them luck, hopefully good
    Eamine your motives before you "help" out
    Just be there when they need you
    Really listen, a friendly ear is a soothing balm


    FORGIVENESS...

    Forgive them for, "To Err is Human", and you just may end up making the same mistakes in course of time..


     



    KEEP THE FAITH...

    Have faith in them. For, there is no love without trust.
    Zip your lips when they confide in you


    EXPRESS YOURSELF CLEARLY

    Know when they need a hug, and couldn't you use one?
    Offer to help, and know when " No thanks" is just politeness
    Quietly disagree, noisy No's make enemies
    Verbalsise your feelings


    HAVE FUN...

    Get together often, misery loves company, so does glee.
    Talk frequently, communication is important.

    Enjoying your friendship is the order of the day. So its not what we call a friendship if you don't feel right.
    Always remember a friendship is worth it when you are able to enjoy the amazing relationship with no holds barred. Its a mutual bond for life that you cant give up.



  2. #2
    Member Array
    Join Date
    Nov 2006
    Location
    UAE
    Posts
    2,950
    Rep Power
    0

    10 rule 4 friendship

    1. TODAY I WILL NOT STRIKE BACK:

    If someone is rude, if someone is impatient, if someone is unkind...
    I will not respond in a like manner.

    2. TODAY I WILL ASK GOD TO BLESS MY "ENEMY":

    If I come across someone who treats me harshly or unfairly, I will
    quietly ask God to bless that individual. I understand the "enemy"
    could be a family member, neighbor, co-worker, or a stranger.


    3. TODAY I WILL BE CAREFUL ABOUT WHAT I SAY:

    I will carefully choose and guard my words being certain that I do
    not spread gossip.


    4. TODAY I WILL GO THE EXTRA MILE:

    I will find ways to help share the burden of another person.


    5. TODAY I WILL FORGIVE:

    I will forgive any hurts or injuries that come my way.


    6. TODAY I WILL DO SOMETHING NICE FOR SOMEONE,
    BUT I WILL NOT DO IT SECRETLY:


    I will reach out anonymously and bless the life of another.

    7. TODAY I WILL TREAT OTHERS THE WAY I WISH TO BE
    TREATED:


    I will practice the golden rule - "Do unto others as I would have
    them do unto me" - with everyone I encounter.


    8. TODAY I WILL RAISE THE SPIRITS OF SOMEONE I
    DISCOURAGED:


    My smile, my words, my expression of support, can make the
    difference to someone who is wrestling life.


    9. TODAY I WILL NATURE MY BODY:

    I will eat less; I will eat only healthy foods. I will thank God for my
    body.

    10. TODAY I WILL GROW SPIRITUALLY:

    I will spend a little more time in prayer today: I will begin reading
    something spiritual or inspirational today; I will find a quiet place
    (at some point during the day)!

  3. #3
    Terminator
    Guest
    good post.

  4. #4
    coolestnapster
    Guest
    good post difficult to practise

  5. #5
    Terminator
    Guest
    though difficult but not impossible.

  6. #6
    koumudi
    Guest
    good post.keep posting


    byetakecare

  7. #7
    beng072488
    Guest
    very nice

Thread Information

Users Browsing this Thread

There are currently 1 users browsing this thread. (0 members and 1 guests)







Similar Threads

  1. Nina Dobrev Is My New Ideal
    By aamirbati in forum Hollywood Jollywood
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 09-23-2011, 09:18 PM
  2. Ideal Garage Doors
    By mrina in forum Audio Video
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 02-16-2009, 10:28 AM
  3. Menís View of an Ideal Wife
    By sveetzara in forum Talk Shaak
    Replies: 18
    Last Post: 10-04-2008, 11:05 AM
  4. HOW TO BECOME AN IDEAL FRIEND
    By lovely angel in forum Talk Shaak
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 02-27-2008, 05:28 AM
  5. Mr Manners is ideal Mr Right ..............
    By coolestnapster in forum Inspirations
    Replies: 7
    Last Post: 09-29-2007, 07:05 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  



Get Daily Forum Updates

Get Most Amazing E-mails Daily
Full of amazing emails daily in your inbox
ĽĽ Join Nidokidos E-mail Magazine
Join Nidokidos Official Page on Facebook


Like us on Facebook | Get Website Updates | Get our E-Magazine