It surprises me to see the current trend of altered sexual preferences in men. More & more men are turning bi-sexuals in India.Gone are the days when 'homosexuality'was considered a 'mental deformity'.
Now,have we ever asked any of them,'why are you a homo/bi-sexual?'
I am trying to locate a couple of links.
Some men love to think themselves as women as they are brought up in female-centred families. I have seen mothers treating their kids(boys) as daughters.....draping saris, applying lipcolours, putting bindis on foreheads etc etc.
It seriously affects the mental structure of those growing boys who start to realise that they are being appreciated by their families when they look,talk,sit & walk like the girls.
Some find/believe themselves incompetent to act/behave like men. Contributing factors are short length of the penis, obesity,slightly elevated breasts(no, I am not refering it to Gynecomastia),lack of body hair,feamle-like voice etc. All these have a profound effect effect on men's behavoiural pattern.
They nurture the thought that they could be in a better/safe position(both socially & physically) had they been ladies.
I have seen grown up boys with mental blockage about male sexuality. They sometimes reveal a past history of physical harrasment/torture by elderly males & at times by ladies !
They may/may not carry influences as mentioned above.
Couples where both the partners are pursuing their careers rarely dedicate quality time towards satisfactory sex-life. This 'not so happening' conjugal life is compelling men to think and act otherwise. They try to find out avenues to fulfil their physical urges. Such men hire young boys & have sex with them keeping in mind that to have sex with professional/casual ladies may fetch serious social/financial/emotional/physical burdens in the long run.
Readers/Analysts/Journalists are welcome to comment.