I dont know if asking such questions, or asking for help is allowed or not. I m sorry if its not allowed. But please help me this case, if possible.
See, I am a simple girl, from a small city. But with a quiet huge problem. I love a guy a lot. A lot means alot. And even he loves me a lot. And obviously we want to marry each other. And even thats obvious that our parents dont know about it. Now the problem is, that his dad came to know about this, through my smss'. And he was angry, but did not said him anything. And as silence speak more then words, he is now feeling guilty. Now he feels that all those meetings, without letting our parents know was wrong. I felt this before also, and said him, but at that time he did not understood. And the biggest thing is that he is pretty sure, that his dad would not accept me. He would ask him for arrange marraige. Generation gap, you see.As always, he says that he still loves me a lot. And will never leave me. And he is correct, I know that he still loves me. His love is true. But we dont know about our future. He says that he will not meet me, and respect his dad, but at the same time he says that this not a break up. We both cant leave without each other. We were friends for 4 months, good friends for 1 month, and very good, best friends for 1 month again. And then we realized that we actually love each other. And the shocking things (for some) is that it has been just a month to our relationship.
What shall I do? What shall we do? He will do as I say, but I cant ask him to cheat his dad, that is to lie, as now he feels it wrong, and he is correct also. And I cant leave without him. Neither he can. And we dont know about our future also. And we are serious about this relationship.
Please help me. Please...