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    Secret of Long term Relationships and Deals

    Have you ever noticed what is un-conditional love?


    its type of love that dont require always a positive response from the other person. its without conditions. mostly our parents , brothers sisters , wives have this type of relationship. and keep in mind , if you feel that you dont have this relationship with them , then please change your mind and realize that you can not have alternate of these relationships.


    But at the same time , we must accept that every relationship is not un-conditional. even best friends don't have this strong bond. you may disagree with me , but start thinking practically , that how you make friends , they have common interests with you , they give you favor and time , you give them the same. so rethink , that is that really an unconditional relationship?


    For all the "Conditional relations" you must have a rule,
    whether its your business partner ,
    whether its your best friend

    you must have a rule
    what ever deal you have with them , you must see your benefit in it.


     


    No , its not selfishness
    but its the secret of the long term relationship.



    i will explain this with examples.



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    Your best friend arrives at railway station , you are busy at home , doing some work , and he calls you , hey i reached home , please pick me up if you are free.........


    Now at this time you are not free..... and you say to your self ,hey he is your best friend , i must go, you choose to go to railway station , take him to his home and at the door of the home he says , ok i am feeling sleepy now , see u later ,

    now you think to your self , "man , i left an important assignment for that person , and he said i am going to sleeep , how rude...." etc....'.

    or there can be different scenario , that you come at railway station and u call him and he refused that sorry i am busy , what you will think at this time................................


    so why this happened???????? just recall your memory......




    Now , i again give u the same example ,

    your friends calls and asks you that please take me from railway station if you are not busy.............


    you say , hey i love to come to take u from station , but i am busy in my assignment

    and he will say , its ok , i call my brother

    see u

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    but if you are really free , and still dont want to go to railway station , now again its time for you to take the decision , ask your self that you really want to go , if the answer is NO , then you will refuse.

    The right method for refusing a person is , that first tell him that he is very important for you , but you cant come due to some reason. or you can say "I am not feeling Well" , because your feelings are not allowing you to go to railway station.


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    now we discuss another scenario , that your friends calls u to railway station , and u also were waiting to go for outing or for drive or you were willing to go outside for a change. now you must accept his offer and you can give him this favour. in this small favour aur deal , you happiness is also hidden. so its the best deal or favour you can give to anyone.


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    when we give a favour to some one , which we dont want to ............... this makes problem for the future, your expectations from the person will increase , and this can blast your relationships.


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    similarly doing business with friends..............

    keep in mind that if business failed you will also loose your best friend.

    keep in mind that dont make loose terms and conditions , because he is your friend , when you do the business, just become a businessman.

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    these things will look like selfishness , but actually this will decrease the chance for the relationship collapse.


    Feel free to comment , agree or disagree.....

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