there are two ways to say something.
"I can do this job , I will" (this is positive)
"Nothing can stop me to do this job" (this is negative)
My life is full of challenges (positive)
My life is full of problems (negative)
i am having health challenges (positive)
i am suffering from serious illness ......... ( negative)
Just relax - Every thing is going to be Ok (+ve)
Dont take tension , nothing will be wrong (-ve)
Stop using the negative words. Throw out the negativity from your life.
say the sentences always in a positive words. make it a habit.
its my personal experience, that when i try to say some one "Dont take tension" ..............at that time , i feel down and tense my self. because i have chosen wrong words to express. and when i say , that Just relax , every thing is fine. i feel up and happy and the person too feels good.
similarly a anesthesia doctor shared his experience with me , that before giving the anesthesia to the patient , we use the say the following words...
"Nothing will happen , you will not feel pain , and please don't be shocked when we inject you......... "
now what happens next , the patient always jerk/shocked , even if they just touch his body with their hands.
what happens .................... the unconscious mind of human body picks the words , when you say , "dont be shocked". it picks the word "shock" and then a conversation starts between unconscious mind and the conscious state of mind . we call it (for example) , X AND Y
(x is unconscious , and y is conscious)
X asks : what is a shock?
y : you remember , when you touched the electricity switch in the young age. and what happened in response , you fell down due to so much pain and that is called shock.
x : oh....that shock, that was horrible.
y : yes it is . shocks have different kinds , they can be minor and major
x : what do u mean?
y:- i mean that a shock can also lead you to death , and a shock can make you mad too....
x : oh my.........are you sure...
y : yes it can start serious pain too...
x : what are pains??
y:- you remember when .................................................
This conversation is called Understanding.
so that specialist shared some thing with me. he said that i changed the strategy. and started using positive words.
"Just relax , you are going to visit some green hilly areas very soon"
and this worked. the patients did not reacted abnormally. and they co-operated in all the process. their understanding was positive. their unconscious mind started thinking over the hilly areas. ...........
So always use positive words. and remember that your subconscious is always alert to pick up the words you use. it will motivate you , when you will use good words.
and it will make you down , when you will use negative words.
May Allah Make us successful , every day and every way