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    How to Speak Well and Confidently

    How to Speak Well and Confidently
    Are you very shy when it comes to new surroundings, such as starting a new class or moving to a new area? Sometimes, it is necessary to overcome your shyness and speak confidently. By doing this, it can help you not only to share your ideas properly to others, but also to learn communicating with others. Here are a few steps to consider when speaking with confidence.
    Steps:

    1. Learn how to have conversations with people. Your ideas or opinions may not always be accepted by others, but this is nothing unusual. Open your mouth, express your beliefs! This will improve your courage.

    2. Donít be afraid and speak loudly. If you speak in a low voice, not only will others not be able to hear what you say, but you will also portray a submissive demeanor, which suggests the opposite of a confident one.

    3. Make eye contact when you speak. For one thing, it is polite for others. Also, eye contact will help others to listen to your thinking carefully.

    4. Praise yourself everyday! This will promote your own confidence, which is important when you speak. With more confidence, people will take your thinking more seriously.

    Tips
    * Donít be nervous when you make mistakes. Human error is far from being a new concept ó nobody is perfect! It is normal for everyone to make mistakes. Just calm down and keep speaking bravely.

    * Try and try again! This may be difficult for a shy person at first, but you need to force yourself to speak, and not seclude your thoughts. If you have some ideas, then try to speak out! Donít just keep them in your head.


     


    * If you have self confidence issues, try to think that you are the only one who has sound knowledge about the topic. Then go ahead and impart your knowledge to the audience in an effective way.

    * Remember that there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Donít portray an exaggerated amount of confidence, or you will come off as arrogant, believing that your ideas are better than the ideas of everyone else.



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    hmmm its simply nice article .... thnx 4 sharin'

    In addition don't forget to listen to others otherwise you may be taken as self-centered ... also remember the others, who are gonna have to listen U, have also been into the same nervous situation sometime in their lives, so go ahead without fear ...

    l breathe deeply a couple of times to over come the anxiety beieve me it helps ...
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    one thing..speak loudly thats not very encouraging..i mean not a goodr behaviro..i dnt kno abt others, but in here where im at, california or the way i was brought up...its very rude to be talking loud....u have to kno how to speak in a very low and calm voice....

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    I dont think speak loudly means to be rude here ... it means your level of voice has to clear enough so there shudnt be any miscommunicatoin n mis understanding .....

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    ohhhhhh

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    i've been thru this situation when i came here last year ... i just couldn't get the typical ausie accent so i've to concentrate hard and speak a bit louder to get my point clear and easy to understand ....

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    nice topic...

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    mera yahan koi kaam nahi hai bhi...lolz

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    so its not talking louder..its speaking clearly, nd not talking fast..speak slow and clearly....

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    yup ....

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