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    Walk light!

    http://yasminelahi.wordpress.com/2014/03/20/walk-light/
    In the walk of life, often there are times when we are disappointed and perturbed because people do not act (or re-act) the way we had expected or wanted them to do! These situations always create negative feelings for those who have hurt or frustrated us. These people may be the relations we hold very dear to our hearts, may be our parents, siblings, spouses, children or close friends. Often in these painful moments, we are so overtaken by our emotions that we forget that we cannot make a person think the way we do, or make him see things from our perspective! And in our agitation we allow the deepest of relations to turn sour!


     


    We are so disturbed that we forget that nurturing and harboring depressing and negative emotions are more harmful for our own self than they are for the person we have adverse feelings for! We may be angry and aggravated because of the attitude of people who mean the world to us, but if we take a positive stance and think coolly stepping into their shoes, we may be able to see things from their point of view.
    To strengthen bonds with the ones we love, we must learn not to be quick in complaining. To sustain and deepen a relationship, angers have to be controlled and compromises have to be made! It may not be intentional, but sometimes in a very close bond, mountains are made out of molehills. By blowing a petty grudge out of proportion, we hurt ourselves as well as our loved ones unnecessarily!
    To improve the quality of our life (and also of those around us), it is often better to forgive and forget than to avenge and remember! When we forgive someone for the wrong he/she has done to us, a wound starts to heal and when we (try to) forget, the scar also goes away with the passage of time. Because in the long run, nurturing a grudge harms us deeply as it sucks away the happiness from our lives!
    Often the miseries we are complaining about are self inflicted. By keeping our expectations high or unreasonable, failing to create a balance between what we give out and what we want in return and refusing to let go of a misunderstanding or a trivial quarrel, we make our lives unhappy and also of those whom we claim to love dearly! So, instead of stifling our dear ones with our over-demanding love, we must learn to give them space. We must understand that we cannot force anyone to live up to our expectations and in the same way we shouldn’t allow them to make our lives miserable by enforcing their expectations on us! Live and let live is a motto which is a key to a content life.
    We must remember that life is not like a tailor-made dress which fits a person to perfection. We all love roses, but we can enjoy their beauty and fragrance only when we learn to endure the thorns which come with them.

    There is always a dark night before every bright morning! Only a positive approach can keep us happy, as life always comes with stark contrasts. Happiness and grief, smiles and tears, success and failures, fulfillments and frustrations all go hand in hand! We have to learn to take these opposites with a positive attitude. Envy, grudges, resentments, hatred and anger are all emotions which clutter our souls and deeply and adversely affect the quality of our lives.
    In the difficult times we are living in, life is full of tensions. But we can do away with some of these tensions if we shift our attitudes towards positivity. Why not get rid of all unnecessary baggage which makes travelling in the path of life more tedious? Let’s decide to shed the extra burden and walk light! Only then can we tread the walk of life with comfort and content, even if we are not blissfully happy!
    Last edited by Yasmin Elahi; 03-21-2014 at 01:45 AM.



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    thats true , only positive approach is the soloution

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    but i think these are only bookey talks when we get up after a dark night a much darker day is waiting for us, us waqt ham lakh chaheen kitney
    bhi positive ho jaeen mager halat dark night ki tarha he rehty haeen

    aur ham ye kehty reh jaty haen ke uf Allah kya kareen---------





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    yasmin baji very good artical





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    We should not say Uff Allah but we should always pray Ya Allah Protect us . Always be happy with countless blessings He has given us

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    time is the biggest teacher , keep trying and wait for the right time.

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    Thanks for all the comments and sorry for late response as I was away from my computer for a while. @Naveed thanks for agreeing. @Rabia.. raat kitni bhee taareek hai subh zurur aati hai, ye meri apni zindigi ka tajarba hai, bas Allah par bharosa rakhein aur Us se hi madad maangte rahaein! @Sadia very good approach.. when we start counting our blessings and the deprivations of people not as blessed as us, we learn to live a content life!

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    So true Yasmin

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