Instad of saying, "I don't have time" try saying, "it's not a priority", and see how that feels. Often, that's a perfectly adequate explanation. I have time to iron my sheets, I just don't want to. But other things are harder. Try it: "I'm not going to edit you resume, sweetie, because it's not a priority." "I don't go to the doctor because my health is not a priority." If these phrases don't sit well, that's the point. Changing your language reminds us that time is a choice. If we don't like how we're spending an hour, we can choose differently. Laura Vanderkam

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