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04-09-2009, 04:42 PM
How to choose good wife


In Islam, a good wife is considered to be the greatest blessing in this world. Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al ‘As, may Allah be pleased with them, related that the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him said: “This world is a blessing for us, and the greatest blessing in it is a good wife.”

Islam gives us guidance to help a man to choose a good wife because they will share the rest of their life together and she will be the mother of his children and keeper of his secrets, and she will instruct their children in the traditions and teachings of Islam. The Messenger of Allah, blessings and peace be upon him, said: “Man wishes to marry a woman for four reasons: her wealth, her family, her beauty or her Deen (the practice of Islam). Catch the one who upholds the Deen, or you will not be able to fulfill all your wishes. (Bukhari and Muslim)

What are the characteristics of a good wife in Islam? The Messenger of Allah, blessings and peace be upon him, said: “The best wife is the one who when you look at her you will be happy that she is your wife. If you ask her to do something she will do it, and when you are away she will keep herself only for you and protect your property.” (An-Nasai) He warned us against marrying a beautiful woman with no deen. He once said to his Companions: “I warn you against marrying Khadaru ad-damin!” “What is Khadaru ad-damin?” asked the Companions. He replied: “A beautiful woman from bad family. She will weaken your Islam, spoil your children and bring you many problems. (Addaru Kutuniyya)



04-09-2009, 04:51 PM
I have choose the same one but she has been already..........
anyway nice post thanks for sharing

04-09-2009, 05:02 PM
things happen y kn itz .................................. our lord will .

04-09-2009, 05:22 PM
good share

04-09-2009, 05:24 PM
nice share....

04-09-2009, 05:37 PM
Islam has got good practice.

04-12-2009, 12:26 PM
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04-12-2009, 12:28 PM

hey idrish, just post comments thats all,

04-12-2009, 12:29 PM
hmmm....good n welcome to nidokidos...
well nidokidos has a chat room but most of the members are not using that so the best way is to comment on topics and check for the replys...

04-12-2009, 12:34 PM
the chatroom doesnt work....yea i think it doesnt work, or did it start working.. i dont kno

04-12-2009, 12:37 PM
well i haven't checked that too...but i think its not working...

04-12-2009, 12:38 PM
like always, i was rite lol

04-12-2009, 12:41 PM

04-12-2009, 12:42 PM
im sooo sleepy...

04-12-2009, 12:45 PM
but i will never let u go...

04-12-2009, 12:47 PM
i will go.....i asked u to change ur avatar.. u never listen to me, wait why would u listen to me....

04-12-2009, 01:14 PM
this is about how to choose your wife in islam .

04-12-2009, 01:23 PM
OK baba...i will change it today....

04-13-2009, 07:57 AM
nice post...

04-13-2009, 08:57 AM
tumhe post ke padhi hai...yaha pe ketna zabardast cold war chal raha hai...

04-14-2009, 10:17 AM
can y write in english, i can't read it

04-14-2009, 10:36 AM
oh sorry, well we were had a discussion about marriage...so will definitely write in English afterward...

04-14-2009, 10:38 AM
thanks zara

04-14-2009, 11:29 AM
u r always welcome...

Wasif Islam
10-30-2013, 12:59 PM
Mashallah very nice one....