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sveetzara
08-26-2008, 03:58 AM
Recipes For Self-Love




Take full responsibility for your life.
Stop blaming others.
See yourself as the cause of what happens to you.



Do things you like to do.
Don't stay in a job you don't like.
Participate in life at the highest level you can.



Stop terrorising yourself with your thoughts.
Be gentle and kind and patient with yourself.



Give yourself the simple pleasures of life abundantly.
Wear clothes you feel good in, get a massage etc.



Watch what you say. Avoid self put-downs.
Stop being critical of yourself and others.



Take care of your body.
Give it exercise and good food.



Be willing to create a life-style that generates and nourishes self-esteem.
Associate with others with high esteem.



Acknowledge yourself frequently.
Keep a diary of your successes and accomplishments.



Avoid comparing yourself with others.
Remember that it's who we are, not what we do, that's important



Give yourself permission to do nothing periodically.
Schedule time by yourself.



Frequently take deep breaths.
Discover the benefit and pleasure of breathing fully.



Eat first class frequently.
Don't look at the right side of the menu.



Stop trying to change others.
Focus your attention on being the way you want others to be.



Look into a mirror regularly
and say "I love you, I really love you".



Stop feeling guilty and saying "I'm sorry".
See mistakes as valuable lessons and avoid judging yourself.



Consciously generate positive thoughts and feelings of self-love
in place of old thoughts of inadequacy.



Be willing to laugh at yourself and at life.
Stop taking yourself so seriously.



Accept compliments from others without embarrassment.
Don't invalidate their positive thoughts and feelings about you.



Be kind to your mind.
Don't hate yourself for having negative thoughts.
Gently change your thoughts.



Keep your awareness and your thoughts focussed in present time
instead of living in the past or future.



Acknowledge others frequently.
Tell them what you like and appreciate in them.



Invest money in yourself.
Go to seminars, workshops and courses that develop your talents.



Make a list of 10 things
you love doing and do them frequently.



Treat yourself as you would treat someone you really loved.
Praise yourself.

hemasnair
08-26-2008, 07:58 AM
wow............inspiring one..........after reading this, ofcourse some people will try to be soooooooo..........
Already I started..what abut u guys.....hihihi

coolestnapster
08-26-2008, 08:33 AM
perfect dish of love and confidence.....
dare to be urself and true

sveetzara
08-26-2008, 11:08 AM
hmmm... thanx for visiting.... but u know what?

i havent yet read it compeletly.......lolz.....too lenghty to read..... now plz dont laugh at me

hemasnair
08-26-2008, 12:01 PM
eeeeeeeee.................feeling to k illllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu........zaaaaaaaaaaaaaara aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!! and you made us to read.........u naughty.....want to punish you.....

sunnyajmal
08-27-2008, 02:27 PM
Zara jee! aap ka tu kaam copy paste karna hai....

coolestnapster
08-28-2008, 07:28 AM
sveetzara Posted: August 26 2008 Post subject:

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hmmm... thanx for visiting.... but u know what?

i havent yet read it compeletly.......lolz.....too lenghty to read..... now plz dont laugh at me


hmmm maar diya jaye ki chod diya jaye bol tere saath kya salook kiya jaye :smt005

sveetzara
08-28-2008, 10:06 AM
eeeeeeeee.................feeling to k illllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu........zaaaaaaaaaaaaaara aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!! and you made us to read.........u naughty.....want to punish you.....



hmmm maar diya jaye ki chod diya jaye bol tere saath kya salook kiya jaye


:smt005 :smt005 :smt005 ....hema i like the way u said....eeeeeeeeeeee..... lolz killme if u can....hahahaha :smt005 :smt003 :smt003
hema and naspter tm log ab mera jo b kero.... its up to u....hehehhe....

and sunny ajmal u r always naughty

sunnyajmal
08-28-2008, 10:19 AM
tum kuch bhi kaho sach tu sach he huta hai...lolz

sveetzara
08-28-2008, 10:24 AM
i m not reading ur comments....hehehe

sunnyajmal
08-28-2008, 02:58 PM
haa na aap ku tu jhoote tarref pasand hai...lolz

sveetzara
08-29-2008, 05:34 AM
ok now plz close ur mouth................... no more comments from u..... dil jaly comments nahi chahiye..... criticize kerna hai to meri post ko kero... muje nahi.....stupid..

sweety4u
08-29-2008, 09:03 AM
thanks for ur great recipe

sveetzara
10-08-2008, 12:32 PM
hmmmm its yummy na?

Candid
10-08-2008, 07:45 PM
The thought r nice even if it of someone else
but the credit goes to u zaraji
go through it and bring the change in ur life there will change
but telling thought or giving lecture is the thing everybody like.
but to walk on it less person do
am i rite?

sveetzara
10-09-2008, 06:39 AM
absolutely rite candid.... there is lack of action in our lives...

sunnyajmal
10-13-2008, 10:20 AM
hmmmmmmmm...